I grew up believing I couldn’t paint. My father – incredibly talented – often helped with my school assignments, creating some beautiful pieces while I struggled to draw a simple cat.
But a couple of years ago, I witnessed an unforgettable sunset – streaks of purple, gold and pink woven masterfully across the sky. As I often do, I began writing; yet this time, words weren’t enough. I had to capture it in color. So, I bought some cheap watercolors and started painting in my agenda (I later learned the paper was far too thin for that!).
I embraced the process – determined, patient, invested – a brushstroke at a time, until I was happy with the outcome. In doing so, I not only discovered that I could paint, but I also validated some valuable life lessons, realizing that wisdom comes from truly internalizing and living the simple truths.
Here’s what I learnt:
- You need a plan. No matter how eager you are to dive in, always start with a vision. A strong sketch significantly increases the chances of success.
- Resilience matters. There were many moments I thought a painting was a lost cause. I felt discouraged, but I kept going. As long as you’re holding the brush, there’s still a chance to succeed.
- Mistakes aren’t fatal. You can layer over them, try again, and often turn them into something better.
- Talent only gets you so far. To excel, you need consistent study and practice. If you aim for greatness, technique is a must – but not a prerequisite for joy (as I learnt, not being a pro myself).
- Patience is key. Waiting for each layer of paint to dry before applying the next is crucial. I learned this the hard way – rushing only cost me more time in the long run.
- Just start. Don’t worry about being perfect. Start with rough strokes and refine later. The key is to begin.
These principles apply far beyond painting. Whether you’re building something, leading others, or stepping into the unknown, I hope they resonate with you too. If not, pick up a brush or a pen and give it a try – you might surprise yourself. Just stay open to the possibility of growth.
Habit of Growth 